do you develop it? there seems to be a consistent theme with internet forums that I waltz on them and dispense advice and contribute to debates and some of the stuff I say is respected but I never form any FRIENDS4EVER liaisons. I was wondering if you go on forums and make lasting relationships or people respect stuff you say and engage with you but don't make friends with you or you go on forums and everyone ignores you, which one is most applicable? maybe I'll do a poll