it's what i do.
More experience than most people here.
i dont really think people would get the wrong idea
You'd be surprised. People are idiots and like to think without researching.
Caitlin sounds like a really big bitch.
What the fuck do her parents do for the government?
"I'll go," said Chagataev. "But what will I do there? Build socialism?"
"What else?" said the secretary.
All that girlfriend/boyfriend crap is garbage.
Just don't answer her calls.
I believe he means just girlfriends and boyfriends in general.
So you don't ever want to have a relationship?
Not in the stupid ass fake boyfriend/girlfriend way.
Oh, I thought you meant you never wanted to have a relationship.
Friends are nice. Why does anything need to be all stupid and complicated?
It's not for everyone, i think we can all agree to that. Some people enjoy being single for their entire lives.
Me on the other hand would like a nice wife and kids someday, so i have to do this sort of stuff to learn how it's done.
I want to adopt a girl from china and name her Asia.
After numerous recent experiences I'm a bit jaded on it myself. I'd like to say I'm going to be a loner from now on but I'd be full of shit; I doubt I have the self control.
Shouldn't force yourself anyway.
i like relationships but i dont like it when people completely abandon their friends for the boyfriend/girlfriend.
I don't really have much interest in friends of that sort, and definitely not if I was as unfortunate as to hook up with someone like Adam's ex. She sounds like an absolute fruitcake.
I don't mean hook up kind of friends. That's even worse. I just mean spending time with real friends that you actually give a damn about is better than just having a girlfriend/boyfrined just for the fact that you have something to brag about.
Having one to brag over is the wrong reason to do it. Bragging works for a job, but not for a social life.
Everyone has their line to make sure their friends don't bail on them for a girl/boy, but guys it WILL happen. It always does. Unless the girl/boyfriend somehow likes the group of people their lover hangs out with, they're not going to hang out with their friends. Once you get interested in someone romantically you spend time with them alone more than anything else.
Now it's up to your friends. Will they be ass hurt whiny bitches and hate you for doing what everyone does eventually? Or will they be cool about it and in case your relationship falls apart and welcome you back like nothing happened. I'm not sure why but my friends did both of those, they talked shit about it when i wasn't around, but when i got dumped they were cool about it.
Once your group starts dating more they get accustomed to it and know what to expect, so you don't get this shock of being more or less abandoned.
@ Walrus fruitcake is far from the correct derogatory term you should be using.
@ Eve You're wrong. The last thing someone in a bad break up wants is "to stay friends". The friends thing is used by women only. Girls who don't have the heart to actually put their foot down and hurt someone's feelings, so they have them around. If a guy stays around for that he's a fucking fool. He's being hopelessly optimistic, also known as "retarded". Nope, if you break up make it CLEAN and stop talking to each other.
What I'm talking about is the fact that Your friends should be more important than one single person. Keep a close group of a couple friends who you know you can trust and you actually care for and the need for any sort of complicated useless relationship is gone.