What Kirby said, also I have a Lennon/McCartney effect going on with someone I met recently in real life that's making me feel really aware of everything going on online and offline... but in a good way. I think I mellowed out after my altruist gander last year in the sense that I stopped calling people out and now that I've reached what's probably my coolness peak IRL, all of those things I used to really care about like posting style or how people view me just stopped clicking with me and I found myself not caring anymore. I've become much closer with friends IRL and barely talk to you guys/post here at all anymore. It's a good place to be - I've found my balance.