Kipple Snacks says:
If you're gay, you're gay, its not a phase thing
TeenageAngst says:
mm...not according to some "gay" people I know
Kipple Snacks says:
then those people are not really gay. I know a decent number of gay people, ranging in ages a lot, and its definitely not a "phase"
TeenageAngst says:
one guy's been gay since he was a teenager, he's 32 and is finding he likes women
Kipple Snacks says:
that's interesting. Does he find he likes women only, or did he just realize he was bi?
TeenageAngst says:
he still likes men
TeenageAngst says:
but he's finding more and more that he likes females too
Kipple Snacks says:
then that would likely be that he's bi, found he liked guys, convinced himself he was gay (likely with help from the media and what not), and is realizing that he's bi now
TeenageAngst says:
nah, when I first met him women were major turn offs for him
Kipple Snacks says:
Also, very, very few cases of homosexuality stem from some psychological instance. In general, homosexuals do in fact have abnormalities in the brain (enlarged hypothalamus I believe it is), to where it is actually part of there physiological genetic make up
TeenageAngst says:
bah
TeenageAngst says:
psychological my ass
TeenageAngst says:
err genetic sorry
Kipple Snacks says:
Have you ever researched it dude?
TeenageAngst says:
no
Kipple Snacks says:
There are differences in a few key parts of the brain in most homosexuals, specifically (as I said, I believe hypothalamus) that is enlarged
TeenageAngst says:
mmm I'd have to see more evidence
Kipple Snacks says:
I'll dig out my biopsych text book when I wake up and then dig around google for the most complete study
Kipple Snacks says:
*more complete
TeenageAngst says:
Psychology's major objective seems to be convenient relocation of "the blame"
TeenageAngst says:
nothing is "your fault" you're born with it or it's random chance or past experiences inadvertently gave it to you
TeenageAngst says:
but it's not a choice and there's nothing to be ashamed of
Kipple Snacks says:
Nobody is going to consciously choose to be gay, there would be no reason to
TeenageAngst says:
sure there would
Kipple Snacks says:
I could see an arguement on the benefits of bisexuality, however, for pure homosexuality, nay
TeenageAngst says:
personally I can't think of a reason anyone would eat mustard but people love the stuff
TeenageAngst says:
I don't see the appeal of country music
TeenageAngst says:
why would sexual attraction be different from other attraction?
Kipple Snacks says:
taste has very little to do with choice, its more about what you happen to like.
TeenageAngst says:
aquired taste?
Kipple Snacks says:
Some is aquired, but I'm pretty sure that even if I ate a lot of celery, I'd still gag at it
TeenageAngst says:
me too
TeenageAngst says:
but with peanut butter it's the shit
Kipple Snacks says:
You see, you're making the same piss poor, uneducated arguement about homosexuality that I see from many christians
TeenageAngst says:
whoa whoa whoa
Kipple Snacks says:
There are psychological studies, as well as physically observable differences in the brain.
TeenageAngst says:
what?
TeenageAngst says:
then entirety of psychology research today is driven by ways to make new problems up and make old ones socially acceptable
TeenageAngst says:
most of the time it's perfectly normal reactions to overexposure to abnormal conditions
TeenageAngst says:
when that happens it's a habit or an aquired taste
Kipple Snacks says:
However a large portion of the studies were from 20 years ago and such. Its not a whole bunch of recent bull shit. And if there was a lot of bull shit with it, then it would not be able to be replicated. Yes, there is a lot of psudoscience in psychology, especially with things today. However, normal basis of homosexuality is the part of the brain responsible for sexual attraction is similar to that of the opposite gender(thusly a homosexual man's hypothalamus, or could be amygdala, I forget which, is the same as a heterosexual woman's), thusly explaining where the attraction comes in. The same instance can be seen in the brains of other animals that exhibit homosexual tendencies, such as various monkeys/chimps, cats etc...
TeenageAngst says:
do they know that it develops that way naturally or do changes in environment cause it to develop that way
Kipple Snacks says:
there is actually a science in this, and not all of psychology is just cracked up bull shit. Yes, it can seem like a lot of it is crap, but there is a lot of good being pumped through psychology for the purposes of study as well as helping people. I can specifically see the helpful influence of psychology within the mentally disabled/retarded/autistic community.
Kipple Snacks says:
the changes in the brain are identifiably originated prenataly.
TeenageAngst says:
does it change through development?
Kipple Snacks says:
can you rephrase that question?
TeenageAngst says:
is it possible to override the genetic tendency with environemental changes?
Kipple Snacks says:
No
Kipple Snacks says:
which is why all those "We'll cure the gay out of you" jesus camps don't work, and nearly everyone "cured" by them has "reverted"
TeenageAngst says:
so these children can be screened before being born to see if they're gonna be gay or not? why not do it to every baby and save them years of sexual ambiguity
Kipple Snacks says:
I don't believe that it can be conclusively identified while in the womb, and if so, it is costly, and done far too late for an abortion
Kipple Snacks says:
However, I will state this, I'm tired, hungry, and a bit on the defensive due to my cousin, which, even though I accept it, it is rather shocking. When I wake, I'll see about getting my biopsych book and getting the studies for you
TeenageAngst says:
I still hold my doubts that environmental and social changes couldn't have an influence on it one way or the other
Kipple Snacks says:
You wouldent have so many high devout christians and other that are so against it randomly popping up as gay
TeenageAngst says:
and of course there was never a gay man who ended up becoming straight
Kipple Snacks says:
There are cases of psychological issues that would cause homosexuality for perhaps a limited time
Kipple Snacks says:
This is far from the norm though
Kipple Snacks says:
and there is the whole thing of most people being partially bisexual at least.
TeenageAngst says:
that opens up a whole grey area
Kipple Snacks says:
yes, there is a huge grey area
Kipple Snacks says:
Though in general, there is a primary attraction
TeenageAngst says:
recongnizing that primary attraction could be difficult though, especially if one is medicated and/or suffering from a mental "illness"
Kipple Snacks says:
Yes, it is difficult to tell what's going on when someone is medicated and perhaps "mentally ill" but most people are not, and thusly a study can carry through. But it does not refute the abnormal brain makeup between homo and hetero sexuals
TeenageAngst says:
many people do have a "mental illness" and even something like simple depression can cause enourmous changes in sexual activity and such
Kipple Snacks says:
based on studies with rats, and what can be observed in humans, prenatal testosterone levels have an effect on homosexuality. Giving rise to it when a boy has many elder brothers, and I believe it is when the mother is older, more likely for homosexuality
Kipple Snacks says:
while depression can cause changes in sexual activity, things of that nature generally do not affect sexual preference
Kipple Snacks says:
I don't loose my job, get depressed and self loathing, and then think "Man, I need a cock"
TeenageAngst says:
mmm not when sexual experiementation is the order of the day for most teenagers in middle/highschool
TeenageAngst says:
plus, you don't have clinical depression
Kipple Snacks says:
There's a difference between curisity and experimentation and feeling in need of a cock
TeenageAngst says:
I can honestly say when I've been in a bipolar mood before I've felt somewhat gay myself, I've grown to like pictures of furry males and can jerk to them as easily as a female, but I'm not a homosexual as I don't find RL men attractive
Kipple Snacks says:
seems more like the furry aspect than homosexuality. and no, I don't, have all the answers, and neither do the studies, but there is fairly conclusive evidence in both humans and other animals that shows homosexuality is not a choice, and is based on prenatal conditions
Kipple Snacks says:
in the standard, vast majority of those who are homosexual their entire lives
TeenageAngst says:
yes but my point is some people may grow homosexual tendecies that may seem prevalent, but they may like women more. Perhaps the homosexuality is a fetish
Kipple Snacks says:
Ahh yes, of course there are cases such as that.
TeenageAngst says:
plus, like gays lying they're straight, some straight people may lie that they're gay for their own reasons
Kipple Snacks says:
There's no solid law, just "Most cases are this, don't discount that" kind of thing
TeenageAngst says:
yeah I'll agree on that
That was my discussion on it, give your opinions please.



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